Friday, November 20, 2015

Ugh... Temptation.

It comes in so many forms. It is different for each of us. Sure we may face being tempted by some similar things, but we all struggle in our own unique way.

When I started trying to live a more healthy, fit life, I struggled. (Heck, I still do. The desire of the flesh is a beast.) I struggled with the temptation to be lazy and just eat whatever was easiest to make (or buy). I struggled with overcoming excuses and making workouts a priority. I struggled with feeling like I was "missing out".

What I had to come to terms with was that even though it "felt" like the temptation was more than I could resist, that wasn't the truth. See the Bible says...

"No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it." - 1 Corinthians 10:13

We all face temptation of one kind or another. When it comes to food, I think most of us have our weaknesses. ;) The good news is that not only does God not allow us to be tempted beyond what we can bear...

Wait... What?! Hold up! 


If we aren't tempted beyond what we can bear, why do we give in? The answer is simple, the weakness of our flesh. 

"Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." - Galatians 6:8-9

So how do we overcome the weakness of our flesh? We seek God. See, knowing that we would be tempted, and that we are weak in the flesh, He has also made a way out so that we can endure it!

Did you know??? Tempted, in Greek, also means tested. What is the purpose of a test? Sometimes it is to measure our "ability", others it is to see how we put into practice that which we have learned.

When temptation comes, take heart that it is not more than we can bear, we have a way out... Jesus and a helper... the Holy Spirit. When you feel like you are facing a temptation that you don't see a way to overcome, pray. Contend for your "way out". Ask the Holy Spirit for help. Don't give up. You aren't doing battle alone. <3

"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." - Jeremiah 29:11-13


 

Monday, November 16, 2015

Why Do We Go To Church?

Do we go to give or to receive?

Are we there to "see and be seen"? 

Do we go to feel good about ourselves? 

Are we there because we have "got it together"?

I have found that people have all manner of "reasons" for attending church. I wanted to know, what does the Bible say about going to "church"? First, I suppose, I should begin with "What is Church?".

You may have heard Christians say that "The church is not a building where we gather. The church is the people who gather in Christ's name." 

We, believers, are the body of Christ.

"For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others." - Romans 12: 4-5

Christ is the head, the leader, of the body.

"He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy." - Colossians 1:17-18

Who is part of the body?

We all are! 

Everyone that declares with their mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believes in their heart that God raised him from the dead.

"Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body, so it is with Christ. For we were all baptized by one Spirit so as to form one body—whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free—and we were all given the one Spirit to drink." - 1 Corinthians 12:12-13

So, why do we go to a building called a "Church"?

For many reasons. 
The building is a place for us to gather, as believers...

1. That we may be encouraged to live out our faith. 

"And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching." - Hebrews 10:24-25

2. To be together in the presence of God.

"For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them." - Matthew 18:20

3. To learn and build relationships.

"They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer." - Acts 2:42

4. To build our faith by hearing the word of God.

"Consequently, faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ." - Romans 10:17 

5. To be strengthened.

"As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." - Proverbs 27:17 

6. To be equipped for service. 

"So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ." - Ephesians 4:11-13

7. To be able to stand firm in our faith.

"Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming.
Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.
" -Ephesians 4:14-15

8. For accountability.

"See to it, brothers and sisters, that none of you has a sinful, unbelieving heart that turns away from the living God. But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today,” so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness." - Hebrews 3:12-13

9. To worship together.

"Come, let us bow down in worship, let us kneel before the Lord our Maker; for he is our God" - Psalm 95:6-7

What is worship?

Yes, it often involves music. Sometimes it is loud and upbeat, others it is soft and reverent. It can be fun and it can be difficult. Those are components and attributes, but they are not what it is. It is much more than the sum of it's components.

It is a sacrifice, or gift of praise.

"Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise—the fruit of lips that openly profess his name." - Hebrews 13:15

It is singing to God with a thankful heart.

"Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts." - Colossians 3:16

So why, then, do I come to "church"? Why should you go?

To give or to receive?

Perhaps a little of both. 

  • To give love, support, encouragement, accountability & kindness to one another. 
  • To humbly offer a gift of praise to our Father who loved us even in our sin, and sent His son to die in our place, that we might be set free.
  • To receive love, support, encouragement, accountability & kindness from our brothers and sisters in faith.
  • To be built up and receive the instruction of the word from our pastors so that we may be equipped to do the work of the Lord. 

To get "attention"; to be seen by others so that we can boast in our "goodness"; to feel that we are better than those that did not attend or even the person sitting next to us?

No. 

We are part of the body, we have unique gifts/talents that are needed to perform the work of of the Lord, but not one part is more important than the other. 

"so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it." - 1 Corinthians 12:25-26

Good works do not purchase our freedom from our sins. 

"For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast." - Ephesians 2:8-9  

We do not come to glorify ourselves, we come to be prepared that we might glorify Him.


Do we go because we "have it all together"?

No.



Instead, we go with a humble heart, knowing full well that we are broken, that we have sinned and that we fall short of perfection. We are confessing to all that we need help; we need encouragement; we need support; we need teaching; we need direction; we need accountability; we need love; we need to belong and above all we need God. 


We go seeking a safe place... a place to be loved, a place to be welcomed, a place of forgiveness, a place to belong.

Through Jesus we receive grace and forgiveness with a repentant heart. Through His sacrifice we are set free from our sins, we are given a purpose, we are given a special place in the body (church), we have hope, we have support, we have encouragement, we have strength when we are weak, we have joy in times of sorrow, we have gratitude in times of lack... we are NOT alone. 
Don't miss out on this great gift that God has given us for the promise of something less that will only tarnish over time. 

If you do not know Jesus, if you want to know Him but don't know where to start, email me @ blesswitheachbreath@gmail.com I would love to pray with you! <3
Bless and be blessed, y'all!


 

Monday, August 17, 2015

What Do You Want to Experience in Life?

This is something I have really been learning since I started my health & fitness journey. It has been a difficult lesson, but it has been incredibly freeing and rewarding!

Have you ever noticed that when you are in a bad mood you attract more negativity?

When our hearts and thoughts are consumed with negativity, anger, hurts, failure, rejection, bitterness... it shows in our faces, in our mannerisms, in our actions and reactions. You know the saying "misery loves company"? That is what we will find. Company. Like minded people and more of those experiences.

It is practically a law of life, that what we put into the world is what we get back. We reap what we sow, but it isn't just in acts. It is in attitude, thoughts, feelings...

Coming from the belief system that I was destined to fail, to be nothing, to do nothing and that I was always being judged and rejected, that is what I found everywhere I went and in everything I did. Even when people were looking out for me, trying to help me, expressing their love for me in concern, I saw only judgment, failure and iniquity.

As I poured through personal development book after book, sought God's heart in these areas and reached out in our church, I discovered that what I was experiencing was in large part because I expected it!

It is funny how we can want one thing, but chase after another. I desperately wanted to be loved, accepted, to make a contribution, to help others, to be good enough... but I was defining my life completely the opposite. I was restricting my potential and my experiences because of faulty programming. I was hurting myself.

What you put out comes from within and if what you are putting in, or even holding in, is negative, negative is all you will express and in return it is all you will see, because it is all you are looking for.

I had to really passionately pursue God's heart for me, I had to reach out to others and share my story, I had start filling my thoughts and my heart with new, healthier, BETTER information, so that I could begin to see things differently. Only when I could see things differently could I dream differently. I can believe for BETTER things! I can reach higher, smile bigger, laugh more often, love more deeply, forgive quicker, and receive... when you are positive you will find positivity!

Before, self-doubt, self-hatred, insecurity, expectations of failure and rejection would have kept me from ever dreaming of seeing God's plan actually happen in our lives, no matter how much I wanted it. Now, it is happening, and not just the things I longed for, things I didn't eve know I wanted!

Like coaching! I would have never looked at myself in the mirror, believing all the hatred I heard on a constant loop, and thought "I can do this, I can help other people live healthy lives!". If I hadn't learned how to tear down those old walls, reject those old lies and start living a new belief system filled with hope, joy, love and expectation of GOOD things, I would not be any closer to living out God's plan for me, and I would be missing all of this JOY! <3

That is not to say you won't still meet bitter people, you won't still be told those same old lies by people you encounter, but how they impact you, how you respond to them, that will be totally different!

I want MORE out of life than pain, hurt and loneliness... I want to encourage people, I want to build them up, I want to see them succeed, I want to cheer them on and celebrate with them. I want to give my husband and children the BEST I am capable of! I want to live out God's plan for my life! I want to bless others. I want to be financially independent and I want to see the world with my family! I want to be the person that smiles at everyone, not the person in the corner, arms crossed, scowl on their face, daring anyone to come close enough that I can bite their head off. I want to welcome them with open arms!

What do you want? What is the experience you want out of life? How do you want your life to impact others? What do you want to give to the world?

Start putting in "good" so you send out your best! <3

Be blessed, y'all!


Friday, July 31, 2015

Healthy Ways to Keep Cool and Not Blow Your Fitness Goals.



Summer is in FULL swing.

I don't know about you, but when the mercury tops 70 degrees Fahrenheit, I'm looking for ways to keep cool. We have had a crazy HOT summer up here. Yesterday topped 100 and today is forecast to do the same. O.O Can you say "Waaaarrrrm!"?

It is easy to reach for the nearest pint of ice cream, cold sugary beverage or frozen stick of flavored sugar and not even consider the number of empty calories we are consuming. That is until the cumulative results start to show. o.O So what are some ways we can keep cool on hot days and not totally blow our fitness goals?

1. Hydrate! Being a mommy of 3 and a Health & Fitness Coach, I understand the importance of staying hydrated. Just to stay properly hydrated when we are at rest we should be drinking half of our weight in ounces of water daily. (For example if you weigh 140 lbs. you would drink a minimum of 70 ounces of water each day.) When we are working out we need to increase that amount to account for water lost through sweat. When it is hot out we also need to increase that amount.

The question is, by how much? That depends on the duration of the physical activity or sun/heat exposure. Here is a good rule of thumb from Renee Melton, MS, RD, LD, director of nutrition, Sensei Inc., Boca Raton, Fla.:

  • Drink between 15 - 20 ounces of water 1 - 2 hours before your scheduled workout/time outside.
  • Drink another 8 - 10 ounces roughly 15 minutes before you start your workout or head out.
  • Then keep a water bottle nearby so that during your workout you can drink roughly 8 ounces every 15 minutes.
  • When you are outdoors in the sun for a prolonged period of time you want to be drinking at least 4 ounces every 15 minutes.
*If you are exercising outdoors in hot weather or sweating heavily, you may need to drink more.

It is important to remember that we need to keep our electrolyte to water ratio balanced. When we sweat or urinate we lose water and our electrolytes decrease as well. As we replenish that water our ratio of water to electrolytes becomes unbalanced. So, we need to make sure we replenish our electrolytes as well. If you are consuming a great deal of water, we are talking gallons here, a good rule to follow is for each additional liter of water you drink, add a teaspoon of sea salt to keep electrolytes up.

Go HERE to read about the signs of dehydration.

2. Refresh and Unwind! Imagine kicking back in the shade, feeling the cool breeze and just soaking up the moment while enjoying a nice cold drink... ahhhh Sounds fantastic, right?! :)

What if drinking that amount of water seems impossible to you or you are like I was and you don't particularly "like" drinking water? Try infusing your water with your favorite fresh fruits. You would be surprised how refreshing some nice cold water, infused with your favorite flavors, can be! Not only does it get you hydrating, but you can enjoy this healthier alternative to sugar heavy juice drinks, without sacrificing flavor or worrying about how you are gonna "burn off" the extra calories!

If soda is more to you liking on a hot day, try substituting sparkling water, like Talking Rain or Perrier, infused with your favorite fruits. Not only are you eliminating all those empty calories and artificial ingredients, but it is refreshing, it tastes fantastic and you don't have to give up that carbonated fizz.

For some great recipe ideas go HERE.

3. Cool Down with a Healthy Treat! Who doesn't love a nice cold popsicle or bowl of ice cream on a hot afternoon? What we don't love is the tired, bloated, sugared-out blah-feeling. No do we love the feeling that we have blown our fitness goals. So what are we to do then? Do we just eat the unhealthy treats or do we sit longingly eying them until we either succumb and binge or just creep everyone else out?

The answer is neither! There are great healthy alternatives and recipes for your favorite summer treats that taste great, feel like a "cheat" and are actually good for you!

Try chilling your favorite fresh fruits and making colorful KABOBS with them. They look great, taste better because they are fresh and give you that cool, refreshing, indulgence that you are craving. You can even create a theme with them for holiday gatherings! It is good for you and a great way to get your kids to pick healthy options as well.

I have some fantastic homemade, healthier ice creams recipes HERE that are delicious and totally hit the spot.

If you are looking for a fun, easy activity to do with your kids, you can have them help out with making THESE delicious fruit popsicles! It's fun for them and good for everyone. :)

4. HAVE FUN! Get out there, enjoy the sun, and have some good old fashioned fun!

Whether it is swimming in a backyard pool, floating on the river or in a boat on the lake, cool off in the water while soaking up that Vitamin D!

Better yet... burn off some calories and go be a "kid" with your kids. Sometimes we let life tell us we are "too old" for something. All that does is steal potential joy. I say get out there and run through that sprinkler with your kids, splash in the kiddie pool, make your own slip n slide! It is a lot more fun than you think and they will love spending the time with you.

Life is all about making memories with the people you love! You don't have to sacrifice health and fun to survive the heat and have a good time. :D

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Stay cool and safe out there and be blessed, y'all! <3

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

I Know it May Sound Ridiculous...

But for me, wearing tight tops, like tank tops, and shorts/skirts is horrifying. Through years of verbal abuse, body shaming, and extremely negative self-image and self-talk I had become that uncomfortable in my skin.

As a result, over the years I have become incredibly adept at finding flaws with myself. Be it physical, personality, traits, etc.... I can spot things that other people would never notice in a million years.

The thing is... what I see as a "flaw" isn't necessarily a "bad" thing. Some of those things are what make me who I am. I had to learn that different =/= bad. Different = Unique.

Each of us is different. Each of us is perfectly unique!

I had spent the entirety of my life hating who I was and wanting to be any way and anyone else. So when I started this journey, I wanted to change my body to suit what I though it "should" look like. That evolved into the desire to be the strongest, healthiest version of myself that I can be. Through taking care of my body I have learned to LOVE and appreciate the incredibly complex, wonderfully designed, perfectly individual form that it is.

I told you guys that I have not worn shorts or fitted clothing since I had my oldest child 12 years ago... So I went WAY outside my comfort zone when I wore a tank top and shorts for the 4th. Silly as it may sound, it was scary. It did one great thing for me, though. It helped me realize that even though I am not yet where I want to be goal wise, I am in a MUCH better place health and self image wise than I was a year ago.

It feels good to have done it. It reinforced why I am doing this and it encouraged me to keep going. I discovered that while it wasn't "comfortable" it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be.

Sometimes growth requires taking that step. Without stepping outside of our comfort zone, we will never get past where we are.



Do something today, and each day, that scares you. You will be surprised at just how much you will grow! ^_^


Monday, June 29, 2015

It is Time to See in Color!

Someone was talking to me the other day about "color". They were saying that we should not see "color" when we look at someone. They believe that seeing color leads to judgement, discrimination and racism. 

While I fully understand the sentiment behind their reasoning, I disagree, and here's why...

Each one of us is born with a unique genetic makeup. We have variations in ethnicity, hair color, eye color, height, bone structure, weight, talents, strengths, weaknesses, personalities and yes, skin color. 

Every one of those things are part of who we are. They combine to be what makes us... us. If we were to take one of those things away, we would be different. No longer who we were. We would be missing something.

Part of what makes our species so incredibly beautiful are those very differences. The patchwork of humanity is so richly varied! It is what is so wonderful about us. Why would we want to ignore one of the most beautiful aspects of our diversity?

I believe that we should be embracing color. We should celebrate the splendor of each shade on the canvas of humanity. If we ignore it, we will miss out on all of that beauty!



Rejoice in who you are and how wonderfully you were made. Celebrate the beauty of humanity in all its glorious array. Love your neighbor as yourself. Smile more often. Bless others and be blessed, y'all! <3 



Thursday, June 18, 2015

For the Love of All Things Holy...

PLEASE STOP letting the scale control you!
 
Let me explain a few things about our vile enemy the scale and why you need to STOP letting it determine your success/failure and define your results.

We
ight fluctuation on the scale can be frustrating and even discouraging. Even if we do everything right, drink enough water, workout and follow a proven meal plan to the letter, it isn’t uncommon to see the number on the scale jump around. I’m not talking here and there, I’m talking daily, guys. Even throughout the day.

Before I get into some of the more common reasons that we see our weight “jump around” like that, I really want to address the issue of frequent weigh ins.

I do not recommend weighing yourself on a daily basis. I can hear you asking “Why not?”. Well, for a couple reasons, really. 

First, it is a completely inaccurate representation of our progress. If you had access to a lab to run a diagnostic daily you would be able to discover “why” the number is fluctuating, but that still wouldn’t tell you how you are doing fitness wise. 

Second, it causes us to doubt the program we are following and the results we are getting, due to seeing the daily weight fluctuation. When we doubt our progress/results, we get discouraged. We then begin to self-sabotage by eating junk, skipping workouts… 

Throw in negative self-talking and eventually we simply give up and quit. I cannot stress how strongly I recommend that you only weigh yourself once a week at MOST. This gives you a more reasonable idea of how you are progressing on your chosen program, but still, don’t let that number be how you measure your progress.

Now, I want to take a look at some common reasons that we see our scale weight fluctuate from day to day.

Reason #1: Time of Day. I recommend that you weigh yourself at the same time every day. Our weight increases as the day progresses, so we generally weigh our “lightest” in the morning.
For most of us the goal is to live a healthier lifestyle. Whether your goal is trying to lose fat, build muscle, or just cut out the junk, this means drinking our daily quota of water. For most of us the amount of water we need to drink is in the neighborhood of a gallon. Did you know that a single gallon of water (approx. 128 ounces) weighs 8.35 pounds? 

For the sake of argument, let’s say you only drink a half gallon of water per day. That means that your weight will be fluctuating up and down as you drink, and make your subsequent trips to the bathroom.

Additionally, as you eat throughout the day you will be adding the weight of the foods you are ingesting. Depending on your caloric need combined with how much of what types of food you eat to meet that requirement, you could be increasing your weight by a few pounds by evening.

These are two reasons I strongly recommend weighing yourself first thing in the morning. It only takes a couple seconds and you should only be doing this no more than ONCE per week.

Reason #2: Attire. You might think that this one is intuitive, but not everyone thinks about what they are wearing when they step on the scale. It may seem like a trivial reason but let me explain why it’s not. There can be anywhere from 1 to 3 pounds of difference added to your scale weight if you are not weighing yourself wearing roughly the same thing each time you weigh in.

Try to make sure you weigh yourself wearing the same clothing (or at least as similar as possible). I personally recommend that when you weigh yourself wear just a swim suit or underwear/underwear and a bra. (You can weigh yourself sans clothing if the setting is private and you want to be as accurate as possible. I have not personally noticed a difference in weight on my scale between swimsuit/undergarments and nothing.) 

Reason #3: Dehydration. When we don’t drink enough water, our bodies begin to store up water from any source it can. It is our body’s way of keeping us hydrated. This not only causes visible signs like bloating, fatigue and diminished cognitive abilities, but the stored water causes the number on the scale to creep up.

It is important, both for your “results” and your health that you make sure you are drinking enough water. This is especially true when temperatures are up and when you are working out. If you are going to be exerting yourself, you need to make sure you are properly hydrated. 

If you see that number on the scale creeping up, think about whether or not you have had enough water to drink. The standard recommendation is to drink a minimum of half your weight in ounces. (Ex. You weight 140 lbs. You should drink 70 ounces.) When you exercise or are out in the sun for a prolonged time, you need to increase that number.

Which leads me to reason #4…

Reason #4: Constipation. Everyone’s body is not necessarily on the same page with waste production. Most people are on different schedules (which is good news for restroom lines…).  

Did you know that it is actually quite common for people to be constipated? There are several factors that can have an effect on regularity and consistency. (Yuck, I know, but relevant none the less. Overall health includes our digestive system.) Some things that tend to influence this are diet (are you getting enough fiber?); dehydration (even slight dehydration will have an impact on our waste); an increase in stress can result in constipation; traveling for a lengthy period of time; lack of/poor quality of sleep; even hormones associated with a woman’s menstrual cycle can influence how our bodies process waste.

Even if we are getting the correct amount of water and fiber in our diet, (which does help to minimize the risk of constipation), it can still happen as a result of other factors and it will have an effect on the number we see on the scale.

Reason #5: Edema. Edema is also known as water retention. Basically, it is swelling of the body. (We hear it called bloating.) It is primarily caused by fluid retention. It occurs in either the spaces between the cells in our body or in our circulatory system. 

Edema results in puffiness/swelling of the face, feet, ankles, and/or abdomen. In some cases it may also cause shortness of breath, changes in our mental state, and be responsible for muscle aches. 

One cause of Edema, or water retention, is excessive intake of salt. Basically, eating too much salty food. The main component of salt is sodium. The body’s response to excess sodium is to dilute it by increase the water level. Salt makes you thirsty, you drink more and your body retains this water to create the proper balance. Reducing the amount of salt in your diet will help you to release a little water retention. Water retention can make a 2 pound difference in weight. 

Edema is also a symptom of potassium deficiency. Things like fish, dark leafy greens, mushrooms, avocados and bananas are healthy sources of potassium.
Be mindful of both of these possible factors if you see an increase on the scale or notice that you are experiencing bloating.

Reason #6: Carbohydrates. Carbohydrates can play a significant part in weight fluctuation. When we eat more carbohydrate than our bodies need our blood sugar levels increase. Excess carbs are stored as glycogen in our liver, muscles and fat cells. Our bodies need to maintain a balance between glycogen and water. The ratio is roughly 1 part (ex. gram) of glycogen to 3-4 parts (grams) of water.

If you are consuming excessive amounts of carbohydrates you will gain weight. Likewise, if you are not eating roughly the same amount of carbohydrates each day, you will see your weight fluctuate up and down.

This is another reason that it is better to only weigh yourself weekly as opposed to daily. Doing so reduces the mental/emotional impact of seeing sometimes drastic daily fluctuations.

Reason #7: Location. You may have never considered this, but where we place our scale can have an impact on the number we see. For example, if you place my scale on a soft surface, like an area with carpet, your weight will read lower by as much as 11-17% depending on carpet thickness and padding. When it is placed on a firm surface, you will see that weight difference restored.


This is because of varying degrees of compression. With increased compression you will see a decrease in “weight”. For example if I put my scale on the couch and stand on it, it reads 35.1 lbs., but when I place it on the hard wood it reads 130.03 lbs. Soft surfaces make it difficult to obtain an accurate scale reading. For this reason you need to place your scale on a flat, hard surface.



It is also important to place the scale on the same type of flooring each day to prevent false fluctuation in readings.

Surviving the Scale and Keeping Your Motivation..

The first thing to accept and remember is that daily weight fluctuations are normal. Eating the exact same thing each day is not only boring it is incredibly unlikely. Never mind that it is not at all balanced. Variety is good not just for our palates, but for our nutrition.

What is important is that you do your best to make healthy lifestyle choices. Get in that workout to help reduce stress and improve your sleep quality. Reduce your intake of junk food, high sugar and caloric beverages. Decrease your sodium intake. Don’t put artificial/synthetic products into your system. Most importantly: STOP letting the scale determine your success and worth!


When you do weigh yourself, (NOT DAILY), keep the time of day consistent, make sure you are wearing similar attire, and place the scale on the same, hard, surface. This will reduce some of the excessive fluctuation you see.

To emphasize this point I weighed myself daily for 6 days, wearing the same thing, on the same surface, at the same time in the morning and evening. The following photo is the result. 





If you can, STOP using the scale to measure your progress. Non-scale results are FAR more accurate than what your mass * gravity equals. ;)
  





Some Examples of non-scale results:
  


 


Be kind to yourself. Celebrate the victories. Ignore the scale. ;)